Sunday, April 16, 2006

Love or Beloved?

Which one is better? I'm not talking about right or wrong... but which way will make me really happy??

To choose between someone you love and someone who loves you....which one?

Someone I love doesn't love me...

While someone I don't love, loves me so much...

Anyone has the correct answer? I'm sure not...

Or is it all about sex? No love at all...

That'd be easier though...if it's only about lust...

But at the point of making decision, would you choose to love or to be loved?
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13 comments:

Nad said...

I'd choose to be loved. It doesn't hurt as much.

Selba said...

I used to love... and didn't like being love by someone who I didn't love because of the quilty feeling - can't return the love... but then, these days... I prefer to beloved... because as Nad said "It doesn't hurt as much."

passer-by said...

Have to find someone who you love and loves you back, and someone you will drool over all in one package. That is the only way to happiness. Why settle for less? It will come soon enough.

Jane said...

@Nad: Love hurts...

@Selba: I still love and I want to be loved too...

@passer-by: Right! Why settle for less? Aim high...and go get it!

JY said...

hi Jane, i will choose to love and the rationale is the same as Selba ie: feel guilty i can't return the love and that will hurt the person more.

Mutual feelings are hard to find; sometimes it's the timing too.

J said...

i think i am more of prefering to be loved.. because you can grow to love someone..but you cannot make someone love you..making someone to love you is harder then growing to love someone..i'd rather feel the love of someone then pine for someone else's love...

Jane said...

@JY: Same as telling Selba... it's not bad to love...

@J: Yeah...you have the point... but is it sympathy or love???

simple american said...

Wait until you can love and be loved.

Sex is a byproduct and an expression of love. It's not that important and it happens without love all the time. Believe me when I tell you sex without love is empty and just an exchange of fluids that means nothing without an exchange of the heart too.

Jane said...

@SA: I will definitely wait for that... ;-) But only one condition!! If he is a millionaire and he loves me, I will say "I do" without thinking!!! hahahaha...

LB said...

Love me please..
Just a little more...
Together we can make it..
Our love is just too hard... er..

?? Wat is love?

Jane said...

Love is real , real is love
Love is feeling , feeling love
Love is wanting to be loved

Love is touch, touch is love
Love is reaching, reaching love
Love is asking to be loved

Love is you
You and me
Love is knowing
we can be

Love is free, free is love
Love is living, living love
Love is needed to be loved

J said...

well even if it is sympathy, you would slowly learn to love the person i guess..but if you don't love the person at all, then it'll be difficult to make the person love you isn't it?

Jane said...

@J: That's so true...